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A glorious collection of musings from founder and MaMa TIger, Rachel Davis. Because perspective is everything.

How to have a better relationship with your child

The number one driver for people coming into my process is normally they want to have a better relationship with their children, to bond with their children and be more present because they are so overwhelmed. If you are in my space I am assuming you do you also want a more present and connected relationship with your children. If you ask yourself why can I not bond with my child, that is ultimately going to be defined by the relationship that you have with yourself because we can only meet others at the depths to which we have met ourselves.

 

 

I'm going to explain just a basic premise of it with my Circle of Raar, it’s a virtuous circle, it goes round more than once and it keeps going round. We have connection, compassion and courage, this is the premise of how people become wholehearted.

We start with connection, it goes round to compassion and it finishes with courage.  Now when I say this is a virtuous circle what I mean is that we have to go round the...

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On control, and security

 

We can only control ourselves in this moment. When external circumstances change, where does your sense of security come from? When we look outside of ourselves to stuff, status, jobs, partners, for our security and innner peace...what happens when those things are no longer there?


The "Raise a Tiger" Programme

Teaching wellbeing and confidence to parents and children aged 2-7 years, through music and FUN!  No musical experience necessary.

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"It's literally the best thing I have ever done with my child!"  - Jordana Matsuda - Early Childhood Educator

 

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Why Time-Outs Don't Work!

 

Do you use time-outs? In the West we're so often encouraged to use these, and to leave our children to cry...we can seem almost 'anti-child' in some ways!

The connection and relationship that you have with your child is central to their emotional and psychological wellbeing. The biggest gift you'll ever give your child is your presence and connection. 


The "Raise a Tiger" Programme

Teaching wellbeing and confidence to parents and children aged 2-7 years, through music and FUN!  No musical experience necessary.

Join NOW  - Places Are Limited

"It's literally the best thing I have ever done with my child!"  - Jordana Matsuda - Early Childhood Educator

 




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Connection, not expectation

 

What's the feeling when you're triggered by your children, and where do you feel it?  Change involves really being tuned into our feelings and our mental processes, in order to release the negative and move into love.

The "Raise a Tiger" Programme

Teaching wellbeing and inner strength to parents and children aged 2-7 years, through music and FUN!  No musical experience necessary.

Join NOW  - Places Are Limited

"It's literally the best thing I have ever done with my child!"  - Jordana Matsuda - Early Childhood Educator

 

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Changing Challenging Behaviour into Connection and Growth

Seeing challenging behaviour as opportunities for connection and growth is what we help parents to do at LaLa Tigers.  When you transform fear and anxiety into love and connection, everyone benefits.

Want to know more? Join my FREE Coaching Series - The Art of Intentional Parenting, where I will share everything you need to know, to raise a wholehearted children who can live and love to their fullest expression.

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"It's literally the best thing I have ever done with my child!" 

Jordana Matsuda - Early Childhood Educator

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When Children Don't Listen

When you shout at your children, you affect the relationship. You affect your connection and your connection is the single biggest influencer for raising wholehearted and confident child who can live to their full potential.

I’m running a FREE 5 Day Coaching Series for parents of under 7’s to help you become the parent you really want to be, and raise a happy and confident child who can live to their full potential. And it’s going to blow your mind. Want in?

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"It's literally the best thing I have ever done with my child!" - Jordana Matsuda - Early Childhood Educator
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Increase Your Parenting Attention

A nurturing environment and genuine connection is going to help your child thrive. Want to know how it's the same for saplings, even after they've been neglected? Watch this video, for the science!

 

The "Raise a Tiger" Programme

Teaching wellbeing and confidence to parents and children aged 2-7 years, through music and FUN!  No musical experience necessary.

Join NOW  - Places Are Limited

"It's literally the best thing I have ever done with my child!"  - Jordana Matsuda - Early Childhood Educator

 

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When Parents Avoid Their Children's Emotions

 

 When children have strong emotions, people often either don't know how to handle them, or they react from their own patterns or a place of unconscious programming from their childhood. But there are other ways...

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I deliver free trainings every Tuesday for parents of under 7's in my FREE Facebook Group, The Tribe. Become the parent you want to be and raise a wholehearted and confident child.

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"It's literally the best thing I have ever done with my child!"  - Jordana Matsuda - Early Childhood Educator

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Stop deciding everything for your children

connection parenting Feb 17, 2020



Imagine how frustrating it is to have everything decided for you. Your child is a person too, however small. They want to make their own choices sometimes, just as we do.

To see the power of music to connect and teach, and get your free online music workshop, click here.

 

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Stop trying to fix everything for your kids

When your child's having big feelings, they're feeling out of control. What they need most from you in that moment is connection, understanding and empathy.

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